*phew* I've just got too many past demons (of my own, and other peoples) in dealing with this particular issue not to be concerned.

Speaking of such experience, um, I'm not sure how totally comfortable I would be in discussing such things in a (semi) open forum like this, but it is something I dealt with for 11 years before finally overcoming 5 1/2 years ago, so if there's any questions I might be able to give insight to, I'm willing to give it a shot.