How private is your LJ?

[dreamer_easy]

Do you consider your LJ to be your private space, or a public arena, or somewhere between the two? I think of mine as very public, and flock anything I don't want to share with the universe, but I often bump up against people who consider their LJs to be much more of a personal space, and don't want the likes of me friending them, disagreeing with them, etc. I think that attitude is understandable and try to respect it; but it's not always obvious that this is someone's attitude, and suddenly I'm right where they don't want me, ie, in their face. who_daily has caused a bit of trouble now and again by linking to folks who didn't expect the whole of fandom to suddenly turn up in their journal, and who weren't actually looking for a debate, thank you very much. So tell me: how public do you consider your LJ to be?

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[brewsternorth.livejournal.com]

I use my journal (as pointed out in my userinfo) for ficcage in the main rather than coverage of my RL. Ergo, most of it's public; the only stuff I have under flock right now is original fic (to prevent who_daily linking to it, and also b/c, Brewster not being the most self-confident of writers, I'd like to keep the audience of my original stuff limited for the time being).