Ok, admittedly, I was not thinking beyond borders. But really, I get tired of seeing the "sanctity of marriage" being argued as precious by some guy on his third marriage and fourth affair.

I suppose I base my ideas of marriage on my parent's marriage: They've been married for 45 years. They're married for one reason: They love each other.

In my head, that's the only real reason there should be for qualifying for marriage: you love who (whom?) you're marrying.

All the rest is gravy.