Well, her definition is pretty clear from the extract - that false, pandering, shallow facade of inoffensive conformity, which goes hand in hand with backstabbing and other passive aggressive madness. It has little to do with genuine concern for others and everything to do with avoiding open conflict at all costs so as to remain Popular. She's not talking about compassion or consideration, but sucking up.
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Date: 2008-12-27 09:07 pm (UTC)