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Once I got over staring at the Doctor's fingers, it struck me that the image looks like despair - a man putting his face in his hands. But it's not despair; this is the Doctor wiping the tears from his face. Similarly, the last image we have of Rose - of her crying in her mother's arms - is not meant to indicate that Rose is destroyed; rather, that she is safe. Both characters will get through their grief and be all right.
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Date: 2007-02-26 01:14 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-26 03:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-26 03:35 am (UTC)He always gets over it. This has happened to him so many times. Every one of them is special and irreplaceable, but he knows how to move on.
I don't know why it's a romantic idea for a girl to be 'destroyed' by losing a guy, and frankly I think Rose is too tough for that. No, she's not the #1 Positive Female Role Model from the entire run of the show, but she's come through some nasty stuff and gotten over it. I have this idea that she (and Micky and Nick, for that matter) won't be able to just leave their adventuring ways behind.
...Damn, I think I might have just invented an OT3. Um.
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Date: 2007-02-26 10:46 am (UTC)p.s. MARRY ME. *CAPSLOCK LOVE*
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Date: 2007-02-26 05:50 pm (UTC)She is safe, you're absolutely right - but does she actually appreciate it, do you think? Because that's not the impression I took away from that scene. Since she's trapped in another universe and, I presume, basically unreachable to us as viewers as well as to the Doctor, without seeing that she gets over it and moves on, all we're left with is an image of a distraught young woman sobbing on the beach and concluding her life is empty without the Doctor.
The Doctor's comment in TRB about how alive Rose is glosses over that a little. I think he means, as you say, that now Rose has a chance for a new life, new opportunities with a loving family to support her. I have faith in Jackie to be a supportive mum on that score, and help her.
I just hope Rose doesn't spend the rest of her years comparing all her following relationships to the one she had with the Doctor and concluding none of them will ever be the man he was. Because that would really suck. And it's not entirely clear that wouldn't happen?
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Date: 2007-02-26 10:56 pm (UTC)