Hugely enjoying the
intelligent discussion here of dressing femininely, and what that means. It's not a trivial matter, shallow questions about whether you can wear lipstick and still be a feminist. Women are judged by their appearance, are taught to obsess over their appearance, are used to sell things with their appearance; we can be fired for not wearing makeup; we can be freely assaulted because of what we wear; we can pay to be mutilated to make ourselves "beautiful". No wonder some feminists reject "feminine" clothes et al outright. Others struggle with how to express ourselves and our sexuality in the face of that pressure - perhaps to create a new femininity freed from old assumptions deadly to mind and body and soul.
Coincidentally, last night I came across a 1971 story called
Mix-Up, by George Collyn, in which a teleportation accident switches the brains of a brilliant but dull professor and a pretty vacant actress. There's a happy ending as their skills turn out to complement each other - for instance, the actress brings one of the prof's boring lectures to life - and they end up married, still swapped, with other couples queuing up for the process!
Amusingly, despite his male brain, the professor's
nervous and glandular system were still 100% feminine, which means he enjoys being kissed by a man (although
what red-blooded male wants to run the risk of maternity?) and gets all weepy and dishivelled. His old school chum is confused:
The appeal of Dorothy Simone as one of the world's most beautiful women had always rested on the paternal-lover instinct men have in response to helplessness. (Well, I'm not going to complain. There are few things as sexy as a helpless man, after all.) In the end, the prof coaches Dorothy in English Lit:
she was only ever artificially unintelligent.
Now: one of the major projects of feminism has been to challenge the idea that men and women are inherently, naturally, inevitably, unchangeably, this-or-that: Linda Low is
strictly a female female. With its snippets of Freud, this decades-old SF story is hardly engaged in that project, but it does offer a challenge to the idea of female helplessness - that it's part of a
performance. Dorothy's dumb blonde act is exactly that, an act. Her skills as an orator are genuine. The fact that each member of the couple settles down into their new role - after his initial fear of motherhood, the prof ends up happily producing two kids -
despite their supposedly inherent differences - is also rather subversive. It's not exactly Joanna Russ, but it was striking, especially given the discussion here, which in a way boils down to: what does "feminine" mean"? What did it once mean? What does it mean now? What could we make it mean?